Saturday, June 10, 2006

Another Reason to Dislike MIL

The aforementioned visit has been in the works for several weeks. The only reason I agreed to it is because our daughter's birthday was this past Tuesday. Grandmom was supposed to spend the entire weekend with her granddaughter whom she promised to go to the beach with.

We found out this morning that the plan had changed. Grandmom was going to Vegas with her favoured child and needed to get home to pack.

Our daughter is, of course, disappointed. Which brings me to yet another reason to dislike the bat.

This isn't the first time she's dissed our daughter. She does it quite a lot in comparison to how she treats her other grandchildren. She goes out of the way to see them, buys them all kinds of things, takes them on vacations and much more.

My husband will take our daughter to visit at her (MIL's) insistence, but find that grandmom has made plans so that daughter doesn't see her more than an hour or so. She'll buy her gifts that are simply not age appropriate or are cheap pieces of crap that break easily. This is about the third visit where she's suddenly changed her plans leaving our daughter in lurch.

Yes, the more I think about it - the more I hate that woman.

, mother in law ,

The Wicked Witch is Gone

but not without a parting shot.

My computer crashed a couple of weeks ago. Though I managed to get it back up and running pretty quickly, I still have a lot of data and software to reinstall. That's what I've spent the better part of the morning on. My office is literally right off the living room and I can see just about every inch of the common areas.

She, of course, decides to make it sound like I'm in impregnable bunker. Her exact words:


It was nice to see you whenever you came out of your room.



I know I shouldn't let her get to me, but Jesus Christ on a Pogo Stick!!!! I meet her across town because the traffic freaks her out, take her to lunch, cook her dinner, entertain her when her son passes out drunk from the beer she knows she shouldn't have gotten him, practically tuck her in, fix her breakfast and manage to refrain from throwing anything at either of them for a whole 27 hours and she wants to insinuate I've ignored her?!?!?!

Bloody frigging Hell!

Now I'm in a very pissy mood and he's acting like she "didn't mean anything" which is not helping.

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Introductory Rant About My Mother-in-Law

My mother-in-law came to visit yesterday. Today, she starts cleaning the house. She's out there vaccuming the floor I just frigging vaccumed yesterday. My house does not need cleaning. I'm just not talking trash. I am a neat freak. A place for everything and everything in its place.

My house is not dirty. I won't allow it to get dirty. So, why is the bitch cleaning my house? He would say she's being 'nice'. Bullshit. This is the bitch that's been reminding me in so many small ways that he is still her property. This is just her latest salvo.

I hate her. I hate her. I hate her.

Lisa, the other DIL, warned us that moving so close to her would cause problems, but I admit I thought she was exagerating. Lisa can be a bit overly sensitive. Now I know why. Lisa's got about 15 years of having to deal with Mother under her belt I've only got about four. Why Lisa isn't completely insane (or in jail for murder) is a testament to something.

Thankfully, the bitch is leaving in 32 minutes and I won't have to see the bitch again until Christmas (I refuse to go to her house for any reason).

And that's why I'm the madd nutter in case you were wondering.